Communication

I don’t care. I Hate you. Whatever. It means nothing. Fine.

They are all strong words but often spoken out of anger. I know I have said that plenty of times in anger or disgust so I could appear nonchalant, but honestly there is always something hidden behind those words. That is the main reason men think us women are so complex. When honestly all you have to do is listen.

I am not a traditional girly girl. Honestly I sometimes can’t stand the color pink, dressing up for a man, pretending to be interested in everything he does, and pretending to be helpless enough that his ego isn’t wounded and he can save the day. I am not this person at all and I firmly believe in doing, saying, and wearing what makes you comfortable. I am an extremely honest person and i speak the truth wether it’s appropriate or not.

While I can appear to be a bit rough around the edges I am actually not. I just believe that life is too short to pretend that everything is fine when it’s clearly not. Yes, there is a time and a place for everything, and not speaking the truth at that time or place is not evasion. I know that i have hurt feelings with my blunt truths sometimes but that’s just me.

I completely wandered off topic.

The point of this post is not to talk about my shortcomings but to acknowledge them. People are some wrapped up and wound so tightly that they don’t see that they aren’t perfect. That has been the problem since the dawn of time. We all believe that our friend or partner is stupid for not understanding or reading our mind. But, honestly do you really want that?

Yes, it is nice in the beginning to know what they are gonna say. And it’s so cute to finish each others sentences, btw that sentence is dripping with sarcasm. But having experienced that, with one of my close friends, it’s honestly very annoying. And it’s almost impossible to finish an argument when someone knows everything you are gonna say.

To wrap up, since I feel like I strayed far away and took the back door approach to get back to the topic, saying those words aren’t helpful.

Yes, I do say them. But if you stop to think about it. It sucks to be on the receiving end of that. You know something is wrong but you can’t fix it. So, instead of putting each other through hell just suck up your pride and break down the wall of Jericho and communicate.

Inspired by: Fool That I am & The One That Got Away

Ta Ta For Now Loves (T.T.F.N.L)

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